I was checking out a guy’s profile on a dating site. If you’ve never had any mental illness, who wants to date a crazy person?
He was nerdy, clean-cut, and very easy on the eyes. Many people think of mental illness in extremes and stereotypes, i.e., depressed people never get out of bed or those with OCD will never leave the bathroom.
According to the Pew Research Center, the overwhelming majority of Americans suggest that online dating is a good way to meet people.
The two keys to online dating are learning how to play the dating game and knowing when it's time to shift gears and pull back to regain your sanity.
A properly timed pause from online dating can recharge your soul, elevate your mood, ground you and give you time to make changes to your dating strategy.
If you want to think about dating as a numbers game (and apparently many people do), you could probably swipe left/right between 10 – 100 times in the span of time that it would take you to interact with one potential date in ‘real-life’.
With the popularity of sites like e Harmony, match.com, OKcupid and literally thousands of similar others, the stigma of online dating has diminished considerably in the last decade.